I want everyone who reads this to ask me 3 questions, no more no less. Ask me anything you want. Then I want you to go to your journal, copy and paste this allowing your friends (including myself) to ask you anything.
I'm going to give everyone the same set of questions, so I'm going to be fair and answer them myself first.
What do you most regret having done?
I have to be non-specific on this because it involves someone else. I did something which in and of itself was not a bad choice and I don't really regret for itself. However, it changed my interaction with someone else and I'm having a hard time fixing that, even though it's entirely my problem and not the other person's.
What do you most regret not doing when you could have?
I think right now I most regret not standing up to social politics and staying involved in the music department in high school. I did not do some things I really wanted to then, I did not pursue music at all in college, except for Pubsingers, and I do not sing at all now. I never had the talent to be really good, or to be worth much training, but I have always loved singing in a chorus or choir. I let petty social concerns, which died away, keep me from something I care about.
What do you most regret never having the opportunity to do?
Travel more widely. I've only been to four countries, including a four-hour layover where I did get to sightsee. Two of them are the US and Canada. I want to see Rome, I want to see London. I want to get to the continents I haven't set foot on. I've never been able to, and I don't know when or if I ever will.